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Red Flag / Green Flag Relationship Checker

Check relationship behaviors for green, yellow and red flags based on consistency, boundaries, respect, control and repair.

Red flag / green flag checker

What is this relationship actually showing you?

Select the behaviors that currently apply. The checker looks at consistency, respect, boundaries, control and repair — not zodiac signs or guesses about what someone secretly feels.

Green flags

Select the healthy patterns you genuinely see repeatedly.

Yellow flags

These do not automatically mean the relationship is unsafe, but repeated patterns deserve attention.

Red flags

These behaviors matter even if there are also good moments.

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Some behaviors you selected are serious control or safety concerns.Do not rely on a quiz score to decide whether they are “bad enough.” If you feel unsafe, prioritize real-world support, a trusted person and an exit or safety plan appropriate to your situation. If there is immediate danger, contact local emergency services.

Your next step

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How to read red and green flags

One awkward conversation is not the same as a repeated pattern. Look at what happens over time: does the person listen, repair, respect boundaries and allow you to stay connected to your own life?

Also remember that good moments do not cancel controlling or frightening behavior. A relationship can contain affection and still have serious red flags.

This checker is educational and cannot assess your full situation. It does not diagnose abuse or personality disorders.

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